Dating fear commitment
So you've met THE girl, or at least you think you have. The two of you are, what some would say, on the same wavelength. Her happiness is more important to you than your own. To put it simply, she's the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. She shares most of your interests, if not all, and vice versa.
It now seems only logical to want to take things to the next level. She makes excuses and wants more space out of nowhere.The relationship is close enough so that you have a common identity as a couple, but builds in plenty of distance and independence so that it never feels too smothering.The prolonged times apart keep the relationship exciting, but don’t allow for real daily-contact intimacy to take root.It can be rather disappointing and maybe even infuriating, when you find out that the girl who means everything to you, while sharing the same feelings for you, shies away from committing herself.The mere thought of committing to someone terrifies the hell out of her.